how i learned to love being single (+ why you should too)

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In this sleep deprived girl talk, I talk about how I learned to be happily single and dissect all of the societal + internal pressures I felt to be in a relationship. I originally filmed this the day before Valentines Day for my fellow single ladies so sorry it’s a bit late!

1:38 a note about double standards
2:38 my history + mindset shift through high school, college, and now
5:22 ~let’s dissect my internalized misogyny~ aka analyze the pressure to be in a relationship
5:30 problematic ideals in rom coms
7:26 validation from male attention
11:10 fear of aging
14:48 vicarious success
17:49 slut shaming / stigma around causal sex
20:01 tips for being happy single

dress: thrifted (similar: http://bit.ly/39QaHxC, http://bit.ly/2uOQLfH)
safety pin earrings: i designed them! (https://enroutejewelry.com/collections/bestdressed/products/safety-pin-earrings-in-silver)

rainy sunday from epidemic sound ➭ http://bit.ly/2VW00n4
partly sunny by joey pecoraro
special thanks to joey pecoraro for allowing me to use his music! check him out on
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instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joeypecoraro
soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/joeypecoraro
spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/44insiIQApkRaCMIbuaISJ

what’s your name? ashley
what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
how old are you? 21 (born in 1998)
how tall are you? 5’5″
what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
what equipment do you use to film?
➭ main camera: panasonic lumix gh5s (https://amzn.to/2Nb0W1z)
➭ 12-35mm lens (https://amzn.to/2JiSrz7)
➭ mic: rode videomic pro+ (https://amzn.to/2QHfZBU)
➭ vlog camera: canon powershot g7x mark ii (http://amzn.to/2DfL4cZ)
➭ canon m50 (https://amzn.to/2Dp1bnk)
➭ editing: final cut pro

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